My Pages.....

Of me, Pojj and Life in general as I see it...

Thursday, August 21, 2008

8 months and still kicking :)

Yes it would be Pojj and me...its been 8 months since the D-day ...and we are still very happy...ummm....very very happy.
There is a thing about monthly anniversaries, at least till we get on to the yearly ones which would be soon enough. To begin with, we both just knew we had to get married, but how when what, we didn't have a clue. The story of how things worked out..is a long one and deserves a separate post. And no, for most people who know me...we have not torn each other apart....a message / hug is still as important for me...as it was.
I am still crazy about Pojj's way of lighting up my day, it could be something as simple as coming home early...like yesterday I was out in the evening expecting him only around 8:30 pm, and he comes back by 6:30 pm tries to call me... (my ring tone which I am unable to hear still, if the phone is in the bag - see things have not changed)..then messages me..."Where are you?" , I read after 15 odd mins...and reply..."Just out, why?", he replies - "I am home :(", Damn...I could almost see the sad face ... I felt terrible and rushed as soon as I could...hmmm...and there was tea when I reached...what better in the rainy season :)

I think I am getting attached ...even more attached to him with every single day.... :) and I like it much much more than ever before, as time passes by.

Cheers to the 8th which we completed last 16th ..................

Infidelity - Guilty??

I caught hold of a magazine at the parlour yesterday...what better than reading the ones that are very expensive while getting a pedicure done. And I liked what I read...and here's my version of it...

The writer "NN" wrote that her friend came over crying to her place one day. This friend let's say is "HH", she had been seeing someone for the past 4-5 years.
NN -Why crying? What happened?
HH- I screwed up, I made a huge mistake. FF (assume some weird guy, not her boyfriend) called me over for a drink yesterday.
NN- C'mmon now we all go for a drink with our friends, whats the big deal about it.
HH - No it isn't just the drinking bit, the music was good, we both danced. He held my hand, I didn't bother so much. One thing led to another and I was drunk, before I realized I was in his bed. I screwed up completely, I don't know what I was thinking. SOB SOB SOB!!
NN - So are you gonna tell "boyfriend"??
HH- Oh no, what are you saying? I can't do this, it would completely break his heart. I can't be sadder for what I did.
NN - Its ok, u are regretting it. Everything would be all right.
HH - Yeah , you think so? But still....sob sob...some more sob
NN- Give me a hug....(for the next 10 mins..its just consoling...)
HH - Okay, I think I should be going, thanks NN...I feel better, so much better. I feel lighter...(says this with a smile..closes the door and walks away)

NN- What the fuck? That's it, that's the remorse, she cried out, cried out aloud...and there is no more guilt...it is all history...and now she feels fine. Just cuz I told her it would be all right? She says she doesn't want to tell her boyfriend cuz she doesn't want to hurt him. But I think she is scared, she doesn't want to tell him cuz he would leave her and it would break her heart not his own...History would repeat itself, she ain't scared to do this again...Why didn't I instead tell her she fucked up...and she doesn't deserve to be in that relationship anymore. Why....

I agree...if we keep wondering that there could be a better guy out there...its never gonna work out. And if we go ahead and cross the line...it was never meant to work out. I don't understand people who would forgive such an instance...I don't think I could...ever..

Friday, August 08, 2008

Bhaiya moo-re....

Well Rakhi is on 16th Aug....I had bought rakhis....there's obviously one that would go to Switzerland to bro...my special rakhi....but hell this is how the conversation goes after I finally find a courier shop close to our guesthouse-

ME: I need to send these 3 rakhis..one for Switzerland, one Chandigarh and one Bombay
DHL Guy: Ok...total is 2710.
ME: Hmmm...while on the phone with Pa....271? 271 right?
DHL Guy: No...2710 rupees
POP on phone: He should charge you around 1000 or 1500....
ME: (astonished) what pa? what uncle/sir/bhaiya?
DHL Guy: (irritated..puts the numbers 2710 on this calculator...and before showing me looks up in his chart again)
ME: (after seeing his calculator and wanting to see his bloody chart)..huh....Pop he is asking for 2100 for Switzerland and the remaining for other two
POP: Of course, what were you thinking...its 8th Aug already and you have delayed it....blah bluh...fireworks...
ME: Thanks...but no...no courier.. (English in my Tamil accent...fake one...)
POP: Leave it....I would send it from here tomorrow
ME: ok... :(

Sigh....but my beautiful Rakhi that I bought..goes to none... :(

PS: Bro...u would get the rakhi nevertheless...well hoping you like it as much as you would have the one that I got for you....hmmmm...

Labels:

"I want something radical"....

Somedays when you are feeling low...like really low...go spend that huge fat income in the parlour....seriously..my fav picks would be
  • a hair span (L'oreal)
  • a pedicure
  • a manicure
  • a face clean up which smells yum n suits ur skin (I am not so stuck up about full facials, of course once in a while is ok)

Of course, Pojj thinks I visit the parlour a lil too often...but often falls in love with the after effects of all that I get done, so he just completely forgets about cautioning me about the spendthrift visits ;).

But once in a while...just go out there..to a tried n tested parlour n tell ur hair dresser to give you something "radical"....the after effects of that can be mostly very very interesting for yourself. Almost every time after the haircut I feel very refreshed and mostly satisfied. The hair has a new bounce...like recently what I got is very chick...and the first few days...when I would wake up after my sleep n look at myself in the mirror...I would just smile..looking at my baby curls :), btw did I ever mention that Pojj is all gung-ho about my baby curls being back (after my stunt wid straightening). Well, see even that was radical...of course that radical came with the after effects of tooooo much hair fall. Believe me I spent a lot...but it didn't work out...

So, there you go....next time...turn all lows to highs...wear ur nice outfit...even if its a pleasant khadi kurta with jeans ...and go and ask for something radical ...something chick....feel nice!!! :P